I stood there, frozen. His words sliced through me, deeper than any wound I’d ever felt. After 23 years of marriage, this was what I had become to him—an embarrassment. A woman he couldn’t bear to be seen with.
The tears welled up in my eyes, but I refused to let them fall. Not in front of him. Not after what he just said. Without another word, I turned and walked away, locking myself in the bathroom. I stared at my reflection again, this time seeing something different—a woman who had given everything. A woman who had sacrificed her youth, her dreams, her very identity to build a home, raise children, and stand beside a man who no longer saw her.
That night, I lay in bed beside him, but we were miles apart. My mind raced through the years—how I had always put him first, how I had given up so much for our family, how I had let myself fade into the background. And now, I was paying the price.
The next morning, something in me shifted. I didn’t make his coffee. I didn’t pack his lunch. I didn’t ask how he slept. Instead, I showered, put on a dress I hadn’t worn in years, and did my makeup—nothing extravagant, just enough to remind myself that I was still here. That I still mattered. Read more below